Phebe Fish in her later years. |
Phebe planted flowers all around her home in Norman, Indiana. She had pansies on the north side of the old Fish farmhouse, snapdragons on the west side, with roses and flowering shrubs in front. By the well house scarlet sage grew each summer. Verbenas were at the edge of the wood house and mums, irises, daffodils and bleeding heart bordered a yard fence. Purple and white clematis grew on each side of the scarlet sage bed.
Isaac and Phebe Fish family. My paternal grandmother, Ida Ellen Fish, is standing next to her mother, Phebe, who is seated. |
Phebe was born August 7, 1851, the eighth child in a family of thirteen children. her parents were among the early pioneer families of Jackson County, Indiana. She was a member of Guthrie Creek Primitive Baptist Church sincer her early girlhood and attended services regularly as long as she was physically able. She was a widow for 22 years of her life and known as "Aunt Phebe" to many. Her obituary said, "She was a kind Christian lady who believed in living her religion. She was very fond of singing the old songs of Zion and the last few months lamented so much that her throat was so she could not sing." She lived to be 89 and was remarkably healthy and active up until about two years before her passing on February 3, 1941. She is buried in the Old Liberty Cemetery.
Phebe was much devoted to her children and grandchildren, ever urging them to live a practical Christian life. The extended family would often come to visit Phebe on Sundays, birthdays, or holidays. the adults sat on the side porch while the children played in the yard. Rarely would anyone enter the front door to the parlor. In the parlor the beautiful furniture and pump organ were kept which the grandchildren were allowed to play as they got older.
Four Generations: Great-Grandma Phebe Fish in chair, my grandma Ida Fish Owen on right, my Aunt Delcie Owen Gunn and her two children, Jeryce and Howard Gunn. |