Showing posts with label Annie Weiss. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Annie Weiss. Show all posts

Wednesday, April 1, 2015

Pesach in Poland and in the Weiss Family





 
"These are the set times of the LORD, the sacred
occasions, which you shall celebrate each at its
appointed time." - Leviticus 23:4

Annie and Max Weiss Family.  Simon is in the back row, in the light colored suit.

Claire Chase Weiss, my husband’s grandmother, told us once of going to her mother in law’s home for Passover meals with her husband, Simon. It would be nice to know more about those Pesach (Passover) Celebrations in the Weiss Family.    


Simon Weiss, of Jewish descent, was Mark's grandfather.

Simon, in his adult life, was not a practicing Jew, but his parents, especially his mother, Annie Wahrhaftig Weiss, was a devout orthodox Jew.

Claire and Simon’s oldest son, David S. Weiss would bring home matzo (unleavened bread) at Passover time in Portland, Oregon, but my husband, Mark, didn’t really understand why. 

Head table had a place set for Elijah, the Prophet on the right of this picture.

Each table had a Seder Plate, a plate of unleavened bread, salt water and parsley, and bowl of water for washing.



Waiting for the Seder to begin.

On Sunday, March 27th, we hosted our first Young Single Adult Passover with 117 in attendance from the 46th Ward in the Logan, Utah LDS YSA 6th Stake.  It required an enormous amount of effort to set it up.  We were there from 3:00 to 9:30 p.m. and many hours preparation on Saturday as well.   Feedback has been positive and it was obvious that all had a fun time. 

Part of our wonderful YSA 46th Ward kitchen crew! This event required lots of help.

My husband, Mark Weiss, was the leader for the Seder and sat in the soft chair.  He followed the script outlined in our Haggadah.  Thankfully, as part of our preparation, we had the opportunity of being part of a Passover Seder the Friday before our Sunday evening event.  Mark Weiss had a refresher course from Craig and Sandy Ostler who have hosted similar events many times.  It was wonderful to share in the symbolism of what we believe was the “Last Supper” of Jesus Christ.  
Another table set for passover.

Passover seder at Ostler home.

I found myself thinking of the Max and Annie Weiss family in Poland/Belarus and wondered what it must have been like for them in the late 1800’s and early 1900’s.   Below is a great article that explains the Passover Preparations of long ago.  I hope you will find it interesting. 

Buffet service of the meal.

Passover begins at sundown on Friday, April 3, 2015.  May you enjoy thinking of our ancestors and the ritual that evoked deep gratitude for freedom from slavery.  

Head table.  2nd Counselor in the Bishopric, Todd Condie, wore his prayer shawl and yamaka.

We had 117 in attendance.


Lizhensk (The synagogue, people, and events)

Lezajsk, Poland

by Y. Rotman
Holidays and Festivals


Passover Preparations
After Purim, the preparations for and anticipation of Passover began. The sun began to shine in the streets. The snow began to melt, and people began to clear out their humble homes. They would throw out straw mattresses, old beds, heavy engraved items, and worn out books. They would clean and hang up their old clothes to air out. They would prepare to whitewash and clean out their houses.

They would bring whitewash from the pit of Zshishele Greenberg or Yosef Guzik, and some paint from Shmuel Langzam, for they would not simply whitewash, but would add some colored paint and decorate the house with various designs and flowers, in modern fashion. Outside, small feathers flew around that came out of the blankets and pillows that were being aired out on the windowsills.

The stalls in the marketplace began to stock fattened geese. They would slaughter them, to prepare rich gourmet food for the festival of the spring. The aroma of frying oil wafted from the houses, the basements were filled with potatoes, the glassmakers went door to door and sold glass pots and bottles to store home made wine. They would make the wine from raisins. Black raisins could be more easily obtained, they were cheaper, however the white ones were larger and sweeter. Everyone prepared according to his means. They would bring down boards, knives, and Kosher Passover utensils from the roofs. Every family cut up raisins. The toddlers would sneak some of the raisins, eat them and choke on the pits.

The gentiles brought wagons laden with straw to refill mattresses with fresh straw, and the old straw would be put into the old patched mattresses.

Bakers Kashered their ovens[5] and prepared them for the baking of Matzot. They hired women as kneeders, removers of Matza from the ovens, and rollers of Matza. The positions that received the highest salary were the remover of Matza from the ovens, and the shaper of the Matza. People would set an appointment with the baker as to when their Matza was to be baked, and they would bring their flour beforehand to the baker, wish each other best wishes and that they should be well for the next year...

The family members would also wish each other a good year. Everyone was busy with the baking of their Matza, and the bakers would bless the customers and wait for the numbered coins, as everyone came to take their Matza.

The kneaders and rollers would be scratched occasionally with broken glass and warned “to roll the Matza very thin”. One would shout “roll it thinner”, and the other would shout “pour more water”, the one who puts the Matza in the oven would shout “put the Matza in the oven”, and the baker would shout “the fire is too high”. The children would see themselves as part of this activity and would shout “wafer-like Matzot with many indentations”.

A giant baker's basket would be lowered from the dusty roof. It would be cleaned, and the Matzot would be placed in it so that they would not break. They would quickly be weighed, and the porters would hurry and carry them to the owners. The owners would receive their Matzot and shout “good year, good year” to the porters.



Passover Arrives
What would be considered a menial task all year is considered an honor on the eve of Passover. In the night prior to the day before Passover, people would go toward the well in song in order to draw the water for the baking of Matza, as it is said “they run to where the Matza water is”.

On the next day, on the eve of Passover they kneed their dough by hand and sing songs, Hallel, Psalms, as they baked their Matzot[6]. The Hassidim would only eat Matzot that were baked on the eve of Passover.

The houses were spotless, and the raisins were already squeezed so that there would be an abundance of wine.

After Mincha and Maariv of the evening prior to the day before Passover, they would go about with large wax candles, goose feathers that would serve as a brush, and they would search every corner and crack in the house. The remainder of the leaven (Chometz) would be swept into a spoon, and the spoon would be covered with a linen net so that the crumbs would not fall from it. The next day they would go to the Mikva in order to burn the Chometz.

There was a procession toward the Mikva: One went to immerse his new vessels for Passover, for without this immersion they would not be considered fit for use, and others would go with older utensils in order to purge them in the boiler of the Mikva. The boiler was ignited the night before for this purpose.

The tables, kitchen counters and closet shelves would be covered with new liners, nice and clean.

The ovens were cleaned with cleanser, and then glowed with a hot fire. The Passover utensils were brought down from the roof and the Chometz vessels were brought up to the roof for the duration of the eight days.

After the morning prayers, the first-born would be redeemed from their fast[7], and the joyous and glorious festival began to appear. Everyone was attired in their new festival clothes, the generally dimly lit rooms were now lit with bright oil lamps and torches, and the table was covered with a white tablecloth and chairs for reclining. Children who lived out of town came home to be with grandparents or parents on the night of the Seder. The tables were set spaciously; they were adorned with a large Seder[8] plate; a large Matza plate; wine glasses of various colors; and Haggadas of various sizes which were passed on from generation to generation, enhanced by various commentaries and illuminated with various illustrations, embroidered covers and beautiful borders.

People ran around in a hustle, were busy, and everyone waited for the night of the Seder with awe and trepidation. They concerned themselves with who would be given the role of asking the questions, and worried that the children would not get mixed up in the asking of their questions. The fathers worried that they should not get mixed up with when to wash hands and when not to wash hands. The mothers worried that the Seder meal would not be spoiled. Everyone waited...

“Ma Nishtana” brought joy to the heart, as well as the traditional tears – because of blood libels, frights, evil decrees, etc. The tricksters opened the doors of the houses during the recital of “Shefoch Chamatcha” and placed into the house a small straw manikin like a scarecrow, dressed up as Elijah, and stole and drank the Cup of Elijah.

There were homes where the Seder continued until 1:00 AM or later. The children took naps during the day so that they would be able to stay up for the long, drawn out Seder, however the eyes shut nevertheless, and heads nodded backwards. “Woe to the child who falls asleep”, as the children were afraid of the chastisement of their father. The mother would take her young children into a separate room to doze off so “father would not be aware”.

The father was like a king in his white clothes. He ate while reclining and discoursed without stopping, in words that only he, as a scholar, could understand.

Everyone fixed his or her eyes upon him.

He would often read the Yiddish commentary of the Haggada so that the family members including the women would also understand. The wife did everything according to the wishes of the king.

This was the only time during the year when the father would sit as a king at the table and set out the courses of food, and give command as to when to eat and when not to eat, when to cover the Matza and when not to cover the Matza, when to drink the wine. On this occasion the mother, generally the master of the table, would wait for his command.

Passover ends with a jubilant "Next year in Jerusalem!"

Tuesday, February 24, 2015

Congregation Montefiore and the Max Weiss Family

Synagogue today.   335 South 3rd East.
Congregation Montefiore was the congregation that the Max Weiss family attended.  (See previous blog "Two Temples".)   Annie (Jewish name, Hannah) Weiss was especially faithful to her Jewish religion.  It was because of the synagogue that Annie wanted to leave Roosevelt and live in Salt Lake.  She wanted to raise her family in the Jewish tradition of her fathers.  Annie wanted to be near others of her faith and Max honored that desire by building her a new home in Salt Lake City.  Max commuted to Roosevelt by train to work his fur and hardware business for many years.

Annie also wanted her sons to live where they could more easily attend Jewish religion classes.  Her desires were similar to those of the Kol Ami Synagogue Religious School of today:

The role of Religious School is to help foster an appreciation and awareness of Judaism in all its facets. Our school seeks to:
  • Promote the development of a Jewish identity - a belief in God, an understanding of Torah, Jewish history, philosophy, values, and culture;
  • A knowledge of Hebrew - ranging from the understanding of the prayer book and significant Jewish texts to conversational skills;
  • A comprehension of the meaning of Jewish ceremonies, traditions and life-cycle events; and
  • A long-term commitment to support actively and participate meaningfully in Jewish life.  (See http://www.conkolami.org) 


Kol Ami Synagogue, http://www.conkolami.org,  serving both reform and conservative Jews,  is located at 2425 E Heritage Way in Salt Lake City.


Apparently Max and Annie's son, Simon Weiss, wasn't that interested in his religious roots or attending religion classes.  According to Clarissa Chase Weiss, Simon must have attended Mormon services with some of his friends because he knew all the LDS hymns.  Simon eventually married this local Mormon girl and he allowed their children to be raised in the Latter-day Saint beliefs.


828 Washington Street-Max and Annie Weiss Home in Salt Lake City, UT.
Weiss Home in SLC, UT.

Weiss Home in 2013.

Each Friday night and Saturday, especially during the High Holy Days, members of the Weiss family would walk to Montefiore Synagogue for services.

Max and Annie's oldest son, Abe Weiss, was married to his wife, Miss Lizzie Benchick, by Rabbi Zorach Bielsky in the Montefiore Synagogue in Salt Lake City in 1911, even though both were from Uintah County.  

Note Signatures of Abraham Weiss and Lizzie Benchick, married 9 of July, 1911 in Salt Lake's Montefiore Synagogue.



Family members mentioned in the list of Deaths in the Congretation Montefiore include:
Max in 1933, Morris in 1942, Annie Weiss in 1954.   All are buried in the Montefiore Cemetery.
(See Brooks, Juanita, The Jews of Utah, pp. 239-240.)
Brigham Young gave the property for the Jewish Cemetery early in the history of Salt Lake Valley.
Montefiore Cemetery is located on strip of land next to the Salt Lake City Cemetery. 




Max Weiss headstone in the Montefiore Cemetery. Hebrew name is Michael ben reb (son of the honorable) Asher Weiss. Age 65 at death.
Annie Weiss headstone reads:  Beloved Wife and Honorable Hannah, daughter of the worthy Abraham.  WEISS -27 Tamuz 5714-83 years old. 1 Sam 25:29 "May her soul be bound up in the band of eternal life."

Rose Weiss, granddaughter to Annie and Max, was the "burser" in the national Jewish sorority Phi Sigma Sigma, at the University of Utah campus.   Her brother, Arthur, is listed as Utah Participants in World War II from Congregation Montefiore. Rose and Arthur came to live with Max and Annie when their parents (Abe and Libby Weiss) both died.     (See Brooks, Juanita, The Jews of Utah,
pp. 195, 202.)

Marker outside the Congregation Montefiore Synagogue.

The National Register historic marker explains the building's history:
(See:  http://www.waymarking.com/waymarks/WM9Q4A)

This Synagogue was constructed in 1903 at a cost of $9,000, and was one of only 4 synagogues built in Utah during the 19th and early 20th centuries.

It was designed by prominent Utah architect Carl Neuhausen. The building's exotic style results from an eclectic mix of architectural elements, including Byzantine columns at the entry, Moorish arches in the towers, onion-shaped domes, and round-arched windows throughout.

The Congregation Montefiore was established in 1895 by a conservative group within Salt Lake City's Jewish community. This Synagogue served as its home for over 70 years.



Front entrance to synagogue.
Now a Christian church.

The old Montefiore Synagogue is now a Christian church.
The building was purchased in the fall of 1987 by Metro-Fellowship, a Christian Church affiliated with Assemblies of God, and renovated by volunteers under the direction of Pastors James Schaedler and Jack Perry.
 ====
At the laying of the cornerstone on August 13, 1903 of the Montefiore Synagogue, Joseph F. Smith and John Henry Smith attended and made a brief address. Later the LDS church donated $650.00 toward the building of the Jewish or "Israelite" Temple.  Apparently the building was completed late in the fall of 1903 and there was a dedicatory service remembered by some. (See Brooks, Juanita, The Jews of Utah.)

When Mark and Cyndy Weiss went to Israel in 2014, they saw the Montefiore windmill in Mishkenot Sha'ananim and learned more of the history of the man behind the name. 

Moses Monefiore

Sir Moses Haim Montefiore, 1st Baronet, FRS (Leghorn, Italy, 24 October 1784 – 28 July 1885) was a British financier and banker, activist, philanthropist and Sheriff of London. Born to an Italian Jewish family, he donated large sums of money to promote industry, business, economic development, education and health amongst the Jewish community in the Levant (modern day Israel), including the founding of Mishkenot Sha'ananim in 1860, the first settlement of the New Yishuv. As President of the Board of Deputies of British Jews, his correspondence with the British consul in Damascus Charles Henry Churchill in 1841-42 is seen as pivotal to the development of Proto-Zionism.[1][2](see details at http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Moses_Montefiore).

Montefiore windmill in Mishkenot Sha'ananim in Israel.  We saw this from our bus while in Israel in 2014.
Whenever I drive by the Synagogue on the way up to the University of Utah, I think mostly of faithful Annie.  She died when her great-grandson, Mark Weiss, was 2 years old.  He has no memories of her.  We haven't yet found a link to her Jewish ancestors in Russia (Belorussia) and hope with the indexing of so many new records we can soon make the connection.  Meanwhile, we honor her tradition of righteousness in keeping the commandments of the God of Abraham, Isaac, and Jacob.





Sunday, January 18, 2015

Character Traits of 12 More Ancestors

Character Traits of 12 more Ancestors

Because I am on a roll, here are 12 additional character trails of 12 more ancestors.  Details about these family members can be found in other blog entries as well.

Service-John Griffiths
For fifteen years John Griffiths walked all over Lancashire County, England spreading the Gospel of Jesus Christ.  He was the President of the Rose Park Branch for 15 years.  Then the PEF (Perpetual Emigration) Funds became available and they moved with many in the branch to become part of the Martin Handcart Company.  He lost his two sons on the trek and died the day after arriving in Salt Lake Valley.  His two daughters survived him, both faithful to the end. 

Education-Max Leslie Weiss
Max grew up in a home where education was important.  He did well in high school and went to college first at Princeton, graduating in Math Science.  He obtained his Master's Degree at Cornell. He did further graduate work at Reed College in Portland, Oregon and then received his Doctorate at the University of Washington.  He worked at the University of California at Santa Barbara for many years as an outstanding math professor and as Provost. 

Activism-Ralph Eugene Owen
Alcoholism had destroyed the family of Walter Bruce Owen. Ralph had to protect his mother from his alcoholic father.  His mother eventually divorced her abusive husband in 1909 because of "the bottle."  As a direct result of observing his father's addiction, Ralph joined the Anti-Saloon League and went around the country trying to teach about the evils of alcoholism.  


Sacrifice-Reva Maxine Moulton Owen Webb
She instantly became a "nurse" when her 31 year old husband had polio. Maxine would travel by bus to the Veterans Hospital to feed her husband while he was in an iron lung.   She worked to help him through Chiropractic School in Portland.  She later became the office manager and insurance biller during the days at Willamette View Chiropractic Center.  She was the legal transcript composer and always supported her husband in his "freedom fight".  She was the unofficial general contractor of building a home in Leeds, Utah.  She returned to her role of nurse and ran the dialysis machine in Leeds.  She acted as an editor to help her second husband publish his writings.  She brought into the world nine children who honor her for her many sacrifices during her 93 years on earth.  

Hope-Marilyn Ballegooie Weiss
Marilyn was clinging to "hope" for many years.  She raised her family with good values.  She supported her husband as he grew his business.  After 40 years of marriage, her divorce caused her to look to her own spiritual growth.  She prepared to receive her endowments in the Portland Temple.  She served faithfully in the Relief Society.  She always hoped for greater happiness and contentment. 

Teaching-James A. Owen
Jim frequently found himself as "the teacher".  He taught in the Army Radio school during WWII.  He taught seminary for 3 1/2 years in Burley, Idaho.  He taught as a Stake missionary in two different stakes.   Frequently he was called to teach the Gospel Doctrine classes.  He loved to teach the nine children in his family and besides regular Family Home Evenings, he held special "Ask Gospel Questions" sessions with his children on Sunday afternoons.

Desire to Learn-Clarissa Dean Chase Weiss
Claire was married at 18 years of age.  She was always a great student and extremely well read in the classics.  She loved discussing philosophy and took great pride in her ancestry, especially being related to one of the Mayflower Pilgrims (John Alden) and the early LDS pioneers of 1847 (Isaac & Phebe Chase).  She encouraged her three children in their pursuits:  her daughter who became a school teacher, her first son who became an inventor and businessman, and her youngest son in his academic pursuits.  

Hard Work-Ida Ellen Fish Owen
Ida was left as a widow in 1938 after being married to her husband, Ralph, for 19 years.  She started a boarding house for students and later worked as a cook at the Weslyan University to support her family.  She moved from Nebraska to Oregon to be closer to her two children. 


Cheerfulness-David Simon Weiss
Dave was a great salesman because people liked being around him.  His native cheerfulness made people happy.   He enjoyed playing with his grandchildren.  He enjoyed sailing, flying, and restoring his 1941 Packard.  His playful personality endeared many to him and he was well respected in the RV Industry and among those he worked with the in the Boy Scouts of America.  
 
Spiritual-Annie Wahrhaftig Weiss
Hannah (Annie) was a devout Jew.  As an Orthodox Jew, she found it difficult to live on the frontier away from a synagogue.  When she came to America, she was uncomfortable until she lived in the City of the Great Salt Lake and could attend the newly built Montefiore synagogue during the High Holy Days. Her husband worked in Vernal and commuted by train to his home in Salt Lake City. 

Being a Helpmeet-Hannah Eastman Clegg
Hannah was the mother of two sons.  In faith she crossed the ocean with her husband, Henry Clegg and anticipated the joyful day when she would gather with the Saints in Utah.  Unfortunately, her journey ended near Mormon Grove in Kansas where she died of cholera.  Her young son was buried in her arms. 


Devotion to God-Phebe Owen Fish
Phebe was one of the founding members in the Liberty Church in Norman, Indiana.
She loved singing from the old Methodist hymnal and did until her death.  She was a gardener and kept a lovely garden. She was loved and respected by her neighbors and family.






Saturday, February 22, 2014

Two Temples in Salt Lake City





Clarissa Chase Weiss’s heritage was that of a strong “pioneer family” (see blogpost: From Quaker to Latter-day Saint) but she fell in love with a handsome Jewish boy from Salt Lake City named Simon Solomon Weiss.   Isaac Chase’s great granddaughter, Clarissa Chase, didn’t have the same kind of deep belief of the Temple’s eternal importance.  She chose a different path from that of her Mormon ancestors.


Simon S. Weiss

Claire’s grandmother, Josephine Streeper Chase, was in Salt Lake City the day the statue of the Angel Moroni and capstone were placed on the Salt Lake Temple in 1892. That same year, Claire’s mother, Emma Amelia Croft Chase, was married in the Logan Temple (March 2, 1892).  These women loved the temple and all it represented.   Mrs. Chase and was very concerned as she watched her eighteen year old daughter’s growing interest in this Jewish boy, Simon.   

Simon’s Orthodox Jewish mother, Annie Weiss, was likewise concerned about their relationship.  “Hannah” had come across the ocean in 1903, with Simon and his two brothers when he was 6 years old.  Annie’s husband, Max, had left Belarus to seek a better life in America eight years earlier.  First they lived in Vernal/Roosevelt area, but she wanted to be closer to the synagogue—her Jewish Temple. 


Montefiore Synagogue-1957
M. Wise (probably our Max Weiss) of Vernal bought a pew in Congregation Montefiore Synagogue on September 4, 1904.  Brooks, Juanita, History of Jews in Utah & Idaho, p. 141.
So in 1907 my husband’s great-grandfather Max Weiss built his wife a home in Salt Lake City (828 Washington Street) and continued to build his business in Northeast Utah.  Imagine commuting between Vernal and Salt Lake in the early 1900’s. 

The Montefiore Synagogue in Salt Lake City was the center of Grandma’s life, and she was so happy when her oldest son, Abraham, was married to Lizzie Benchick in the “proper Jewish way” in their Jewish Temple (Montefiore Synagogue) by Rabbi Zorach Bielsky.

Michael & Hannah (Max & Annie) Weiss Family
Standing L to R:

Elizabeth (Lizzie) Benchick Weiss, husband, Abraham (Abe) Weiss,

Simon Solomon Weiss, Samuel George Weiss

Front L to R:
Annie (Hannah) Wahrhaftig, Morris Weiss, Max (Michael) Weiss

But Simon didn’t feel the same way about his mother’s Orthodox Jewish beliefs. As Annie watched her son fall in love with Clair, the beautiful Mormon girl, she was deeply concerned about his choice.

In 1918, the Jewish boy and the Mormon girl decided to elope.  They each knew that they couldn’t get their family’s permission to marry outside of their respective temples, so they planned to get married at the City/County Building. 

Salt Lake City and County Building

Claire tells about her wedding day in 1918 in a video interview in 1981 at the age of 81:

The temperature was so that my new high heels sunk into the asphalt on Main Street.  It was so hot!  And then we went not to the Hotel Utah or the bridal suite or anyplace like that, we went to what was really a tavern then, a businessman’s hotel that used to be on the south side of 2nd So. Between Main and West Temple called Killen Hotel.  And he got a room and we took all our things up there and got dressed and went down to the city County building and got married.  The County Clerk signed our marriage license.  We were just married by the County Clerk of Salt Lake County in the old City/County Building.

Marriage Certificate from June 5, 1918
And we walked out and as we started walking up the hall of the Justice Building and ran right into my Uncle Milton Croft, my mother’s brother.  And he said, “What have you kids been doing?” 
We were caught in the act.  So we just said, (Si said), “I just registered for the draft and Clair and I just got married.”
“You didn’t!”
We said, “Yes we did” and I showed him my wedding ring.
And he said, “Now, I want you to do this.  I want you to go straight home to your mother—right now—and tell her.”  And so we did.  We said, “We will.”

First we went right up to my mother’s and walked in the house and Si said, “Mrs. Chase, Claire and I got married.”
“You what?”
“Claire and I got married.”
And my mother (Emma Amelia Croft Chase) broke down sobbing, sobbing, sobbing and she just kept sobbing so you couldn’t even talk to her.  She just kept sobbing, sobbing.

And my husband, Simon said, “Mrs. Chase, don’t cry, please don’t cry.  I love Claire and I’ll always take good care of her.  I’ll never forsake her.  I will always take care of her and treat her wonderfully and you’ll like me for it.”

So we finally go her calmed down enough so we could leave after an hour or two.  We were there about two hours trying to calm her down.  My father (Frank Leslie Chase, on the other hand, gave his blessing.  He said, “I hope you’ll just be as happy as can be.”  Because we HAD gotten married. 
Clarissa Chase Weiss-about 1976

I’m sure it nearly broke the heart of Mark’s Jewish great-grandmother to see her son Simon marry out of the Jewish faith.*   Simon Weiss and Claire Chase’s union was among the first Mormon-Jewish marriages in Salt Lake City.   In 1918 it was quite rare to have interfaith marriage.  Today, many of their descendants are less active or non-members in the Mormon faith and know very little about the Jewish faith of their fathers. 

How thankful I am for Holy Temples and for those who sacrificed so much to build them. 
When I take part in the ordinances inside these Holy Temples I remember the pioneers who sacrificed so much to build these grand “houses of God”.
 
Mark and I like to tell our children that we had a “Temple Courtship”:  He proposed to me in the Manti Temple, gave me my ring in the Provo Temple, and we were married in the Salt Lake Temple.

It is my belief that what goes on inside these modern Holy Temples truly matters.  It is, however, what goes on inside of you that matters most.  It is a decision to have an eternal “forever family.”
Carved in stone on east side of Salt Lake Temple-Holiness to the LORD
Outside the all LDS temples on the east side is carved these words:
“Holiness to the Lord-The House of the Lord.”
May we and all the Weiss descendants seek the sacred ordinances and blessings found inside the Holy Temples of God.


=======Notes on Jewish and Mormon views on intermarriage=======

*All branches of Orthodox Judaism view intermarriage as wrong and refer to intermarriage as a "Second Silent Holocaust."

According to the Torah, Jews should not intermarry because their children will turn to other religions. "You shall not intermarry with them: do not give your daughters to their sons or take their daughters for your sons. For you will turn your children away from Me to worship other gods..." (Deuteronomy 7:1-3).  (see Lisa Katz, Jewish View of Intermarriage.) 

LDS.org references these passages regarding a man and a woman of different religious beliefs and practices:  You shall not take a wife for my son of the daughters of the Canaanites: Gen. 24:3   If Jacob take a wife of the daughters of Heth, what good shall my life do me?: Gen. 27:46; ( Gen. 28:1–2; ) Israel shall not marry the Canaanites: Deut. 7:3–4;  We would not give our daughters unto the people of the land, nor take their daughters for our sons: Neh. 10:30; If a man marry a wife not by me, their covenant and marriage is not of force when they are dead: D&C 132:15;
LDS.org says:  To be exalted in the highest degree and continue eternally in family relationships, we must enter into “the new and everlasting covenant of marriage” and be true to that covenant. In other words, temple marriage is a requirement for obtaining the highest degree of celestial glory. (See D&C 131:1-4.)