"Many of the challenges we face in life can be solved and overcome; however, others may be difficult to understand and impossible to overcome and will be with us until we pass on to the next life. As we temporarily endure the challenges we can solve and as we continue to endure the challenges we cannot solve, it is important to remember that the spiritual strength we develop will help us successfully endure all the challenges we face in life.
"Great examples of spiritual stamina come from our own family histories. Among the many stories from our ancestors, we will be able to find examples that demonstrate the positive characteristics of endurance." (https://www.lds.org/general-conference/2013/10/the-strength-to-endure)
As I have researched the lives of my family, I have found many examples of individuals who simply woke up each morning to faithfully face the challenges each day presented. Here are but a few.
My mother: Reva Maxine Moulton Owen Webb
She is nearing 92 years and gracefully enduring to the end. She has nurtured her faith and that of her own 9 children over all these years. Her early years of poor health and challenging life didn't dampen her faith. She has watched many in her own family have "crossed over" and patiently awaits her turn to join them. Like Paul she taught by example how to "run with patience the race that is set before us." (Hebrews 12:1)
My father: James Austin Owen
His own father died when he was only a boy of seven. He honored his widowed mother by living a good life. He suffered polio when he was a young father. As a former high school and college athlete, it was a challenge for him to relearn to walk and use his weakened legs and arms. He returned to school to became a doctor of Chiropractic medicine in a day when some thought it was "quack medicine." His strong ideals caused him to battle "Big Government" for many years. Diabetes and kidney failure took his life at age 59. He never wavered in his faith, but shared it with all who would listen. His greatest joy was to hear that his children "walk(ed) in truth" 3 John 1:4.
My step-father: LaVarr B. Webb
This man shared our lives for 20 years. He was the only grandfather my children knew. From butcher to college professor, he showed his posterity that going back to school and "re-tooling" oneself was possible.He battled with Leukemia for 17 of those 20 years and pressed forward.
He taught his children "to walk in the ways of truth and soberness." (Mosiah 4:15).
My 3rd Great Grandparents: Thomas and Sarah Denton Moulton
It took fifteen years of scrimping and saving coins in a fruit jar and the help of the "PEF" (Perpetual Emigration Fund) for the Moulton family to come to America and join their fellow "Saints" in Zion. They were willing to suffer, sacrifice and even start over their life in rural mountain area of northern Utah to bring the blessings of freedom and faith to their numerous posterity.
"And it shall come to pass in the last days, that the mountain of the Lord’s house shall be established in the top of the mountains, and shall be exalted above the hills; and all nations shall flow unto it.
"And many people shall go and say, Come ye, and let us go up to the mountain of the Lord, to the house of the God of Jacob; and he will teach us of his ways, and we will walk in his paths: for out of Zion shall go forth the law, and the word of the Lord from Jerusalem" (Isaiah 2:2-3)
My 3rd Great Grandfather: John Griffiths
John Griffith's sacrifice touches my heart deeply. He worked for 15 years as a tireless missionary and branch president building up "The Kingdom of God" in England. Then he finally makes the difficult journey to America, pulls a handcart to Utah Valley, buries his two sons (ages 9 and 11) along the trail, and dies the very night he arrives in the Salt Lake Valley.
Like Paul, John Griffiths could say: "I have fought the good fight, I have finished my course, I havekept the faith. Henceforth there is laid up for me a crown of righteousness which the Lord, the righteous judge, shall give me at that day" (2 Timothy 4:7-8).
My 2nd Great Grandparents: Henry and Margaret Griffiths Clegg
Henry "wasted and wore out his life" (D&C 123: 13) building up Zion. He watched his first wife die on the trail. Then he buried their baby son in her arms. He "kept moving." He was a soldier, a musician, a builder, a storekeeper, a beloved Heber City Bishop, and a great father. He died young and left his widowed wives to care for a large family. Margaret was a beloved "handcart pioneer" and a faithful visiting teacher to the end of her long and difficult life.
My husband's 3rd Great Grandparents: Isaac and Phebe Ogden Chase
Isaac and Phebe left their good life in New York to join the cause of the restored gospel. They gave of their resources and their time and talent to build Zion. They sacrificed all because they recognized the truth in the doctrines taught by living prophets. Father & Mother Chase lived faithful to the end despite what others perceived as being wronged by leaders. They knew what mattered most. "Seek not after riches nor the vain things of this world; for behold, you cannot carry them with you. (Alma 39:14)
My husband's 3rd Great Grandparents: John and Amelia Croft
Leaving England to come to America and begin a new life together, the newlyweds made their way to Enterprise, Morgan County, Utah. They built up a life and did the best they could to provide for their large posterity. He worked the railroad, built up his farm, served as postmaster, and did whatever he could to provide. His willingness to move to Star Valley after building up a life in Morgan County showed his determination to heed the call of a living prophet. "Yea, we can see that the Lord in his great infinite goodness doth bless and prosper those who put their trust in him" (Helaman 12:1).
My husband's 2nd Great Grandparents: Max & Annie Weiss
Leaving Belarus to come to America in the early nineteenth century was a manifestation of their desire to provide for a better life for their young family. Living in Vernal, Utah in pioneer times was not for the faint in heart. Annie's faithfulness to her Jewish traditions while living in the midst of "Mormons" was an indication of her great faith. She raised two grandchildren when their own parents died and was widowed for 21 years. "Hast thou not known? hast thou not heard? He giveth power to the faint; and to them that have no might he increaseth strength... they that wait upon the Lord shall renew their strength; they shall mount up with wings as eagles; they shall run and not be weary; and they shall walk, and not faint" (Isaiah 40:28-31).
Richard Maynes reminds us:
"Every morning when we wake up, we face a new day filled with the challenges of life. These challenges come in many forms: physical challenges, financial setbacks, difficulties with relationships, emotional trials, and even struggles with one’s faith.
"Heavenly Father has organized our journey through life to be a test of our character. We are exposed to both good and evil influences and then given the moral agency to choose for ourselves which path we will take.
"Because
we face challenges every day, it is important that we work on our
spiritual stamina every day. When we develop spiritual stamina, the
false traditions of the world, as well as our personal daily challenges,
will have little negative impact on our ability to endure in
righteousness.
"Great examples of spiritual stamina come from our own family histories. Among the many stories from our ancestors, we will be able
to find examples that demonstrate the positive characteristics of
endurance."
I am thankful for the faithful lives of my ancestors that show me how to "become the rock the river cannot wash away."